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"Does Anyone In Your Life Drive You CRAZY ?"

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Let’s face it, parenting can be highly stressful at different times when facing the challenges that we all face with our children. We’re concerned with our children’s needs and issues not only at home, but away from home as well. 

I’m a Coach, Counselor and a Grandmother, and I can help! You can tell me the most irritating misbehavior your child is driving you crazy with. More than likely I’ve heard it all before. That's why I’ll have MANY options for you to choose from in solving your child's challenging behavior!  And I’ll stay with you, guide you through the steps to creating the family life you’ve always wanted. (see next page for the coaching process.)

So give me a call, or shoot me an email, before the misbehavior gets worse!

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 Tired of endless arguments with your future lawyer child?  Fed up with power struggles over what and when to eat, wear, clean up and…so on. You know, the ones you are going to call and talk to me about!  Why not call RIGHT NOW!

How would you like to have a tool belt filled with all the tools you need to have positiveeffective and respectful relationship with your child ALL of the time?  I will help you fill your parenting tool belt to the brim with many options on how to handle the normal, everyday challenges of raising children AND
maintaining your sanity!

My skill is in coaching parents with harmonious life techniques that fill their tool belts so they are prepared with positive and cooperative discipline choices which promote behavior that is effective and respectful of you and your child and the needs of your situation. My approach is not a "one solution for every problem." Custom options for YOUR ideal family life will be provided for you to choose from.

Here's a myth I can help you replace with realistic, logical, fun and very loving parenting awareness. I'm sure you've heard the idea of:
Treat Your Child As You'd Like To Be Treated!

First, let me ask you if you think all people have the same personality type? Surely you know people who are leaders, followers, nurturers, resisters, jokers, cold and analytical, warm and loving, happy-go-lucky, responsible, irresponsible, loyal, flighty, and so on.

The truth of the matter is that we can have more in common with a complete stranger than with our own children! And that's the GOOD news! The BAD news happens when we don't realize it!

I can help you decipher yours and your child's core energy essence. It's the energy we are born with, the energy that must be expressed in this lifetime in order for us to be fully successful in our lives.

If that sounds strange, let me take you back approximately 2500 years ago! Hippocrates, the "Father of Modern Medicine," the man after whom the Hippocratic Oath was named. Hippocrates found 4 personality types, based on bodily fluids. You've probably heard of the four:
Choloric - yellow bile, Melancholic - black bile, Phlegmatic - phlegm, Sanguine - blood

There were other ancient typologies, including the Enneagram, an oral tradition handed down through the ages that depicts the rise of the healthy side of a personality and the into the unhealthy side of a personality. This typology has been studied and applied by Jesuit priests for many centuries.

There is also Numerology, a more linear classification based on a person's birth month, day and year and their full birth name. Each letter and number has an energy value that calculates attributes and challenges of each individual. It is more objective, the Enneagram, by virtue of its oral transmission, is more subjective.

Into more modern times there is the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), the most scientifically verified typology. Millions of people around the world have been and continue to be tested with clear preferences that cover how they are energized and motivated (Introverted or Extraverted) to how they make decisions (analytically or emotionally; and with finality or open endedness) to whether they see life through their physical senses or their more intuitive senses.

I've studied all of the above, more out of curiosity when time allowed than for any other purpose. I began writing a book on discipline and before I knew it my hobby kept inserting itself into my writing, and before I knew it, I was writing a book I never even dreamed of ever writing!

So there you have it! I was guided into writing this book! You don't have to agree, but I think you'll find what I know about and how it not only explains your child's misbehavior, but it gives you a very clear path to the MAGIC OF MAKING MISBEHAVIOR DISAPPEAR!

If that sounds good, then send an email letting me know:
what the problems are and several days and times when we can set up an appointment to talk about how to begin ENJOYING parenting! I’ll get back within 48 hours!  (Longer if it's a long holiday.) Get in touch, for your sake and your family’s. NOW is when you can start creating the family life of your dreams!



***Five 45 minute FREE introductory consultations are available***
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  Have you ever thought about how great it would be to have a Fairy Godmother around to help you when you feel overwhelmed with the pressures of parenting? Well, I’m not exactly a Fairy Godmother, 
but I am a grandmotherly, supportive and highly trained 
counselor/coach who can help you navigate when 
the waters called parenting get rough!

 Call or email me today, right now, even…while you’re thinking about it!  What have you got to lose, besides headaches, neck and back aches, irritable bowel and other irritable symptoms; nervous ticks, slouched shoulders and trembling upper lips; flared nostrils and bulging veins?  And you have SO MUCH that is so much more POSITIVE to gain! 

 In the meantime, tell someone you love, you LOVE THEM!!

   

 

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Getting to the Heart of It!

With Barbara Smailey, PhD.

 (650) 365-(days a year) KIDS

   (650-365-5437)  

email:  Parents@gettingtotheheartofit.com

 



 

 

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